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Lynn Hoyt's avatar

I agree with Dagny Kight in that the photos look basically the same to me. Her face in the after picture looks slightly thinner, but certainly not what I would expect from a 100-lb weight loss. Regardless, I can certainly see how anyone who all their life has felt, and been told that they are 'less than', a failure, an outsider, because of their body size and finally they're a 'normal' size, would find it very difficult to cope with the complex emotions that go along with that. When you've spent years or potentially decades feeling like your life would be perfect if only you were able to lose weight (even if it's not a conscious thought), reality can be very cruel. I also think our weight is tied in to who we are at a very foundational level. Personally, I'm 9 weeks into Ozempic and having success, yet there's a part of me that's almost grieving for the loss of the person I've been all my life that I might be leaving behind (assuming my success continues long term). Being fat is part of my identity. While it's not one I would have chosen, after so many years it's part of who I am, and it takes some adjusting to think of letting go of it.

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Dagny Kight's avatar

The photos look the same to me. She has the same bags under her eyes in each, her hair looks lighter in the after photo, and her expression appears the same. Except for different color tops and photo backgrounds, I'm not seeing the contrast. She does not look that different for having lost 100lbs but it might be more apparent in full-body photos. Please tell me I'm totally missing something obvious!

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